This is probably playing with fire..
…my ex husband and I divorced about a year ago after I found out he had been cheating with a younger woman at his work. I know, probably all too common.
The divorce has been relatively easy for the most part, he has not pushed back and we have remained as amicable as one could expect given the situation
Fast forward to today and I get a random message from a much older former colleague of his. I had always been a bit smitten with him, he is incredibly kind, intellectual, and the rugged masculine type.
But here I am feeling a bit guilty, I am no longer married but given their history I am feeling somewhat awful for being interested in him. Surely this is not appropriate, is it?!
3 comments posted: Tuesday, July 21st, 2026
