hallelujah ( member #32283)		posted at 5:33 PM on Tuesday, May 29th, 2012	
			 
	I loved this post so much when I first read it.  I copied it and read it over and over.  It was the first time I really felt that someone knew what it was like to be a WS and to offer real advice for someone who wanted so badly to do the right thing.  Thank you Maia - I love all of your posts. 
 
			 	 			
				    				 Maia (original poster  member #8268)		posted at 3:50 PM on Thursday, May 31st, 2012	
			 
	you're welcome. I love your screen name. 
 
 
	
 
 
			 			The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18		
	 	 			
				    				BaxtersBFF ( member #26859)		posted at 3:16 PM on Saturday, June 2nd, 2012	
			 			
				    				Aubrie ( member #33886)		posted at 7:40 AM on Saturday, July 7th, 2012	
				"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne		
	 	 			
				    				ZenMumWalking ( member #25341)		posted at 1:23 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012	
				Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22 
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now		
	 	 			
				    				Bobcat5 ( new member #35720)		posted at 7:16 PM on Tuesday, July 31st, 2012	
				ME:50 BH:49
DD #1 09/11
DD #2 10/11
DD #3 1/12
DD #4 5/19/2012  
DD #5 7/24/12 broke NC
M: 24 yrs 3 great kids
Trying to reconcile
		
	 	 			
				    				BaxtersBFF ( member #26859)		posted at 2:13 AM on Monday, August 13th, 2012	
			 			
				    				hopelesshopeful ( new member #36533)		posted at 6:09 AM on Wednesday, August 22nd, 2012	
			 
	Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! 
 
			 			WW (me)
Married 15 years, 3 kids
LTA (EA/PA)
ended 6 months ago
NC except from FOm's BW
DDay for my BH 8/27/2012		
	 	 			
				    				 Maia (original poster  member #8268)		posted at 12:56 PM on Thursday, August 23rd, 2012	
			 
	you're welcome.  
 
 
			 			The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18		
	 	 			
				    				hallelujah ( member #32283)		posted at 11:33 PM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012	
		 			
				    				 Maia (original poster  member #8268)		posted at 3:57 PM on Friday, August 31st, 2012	
			 
	for snookie. 
 
 
	with prayers. 
 
			 			The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18		
	 	 			
				    				She-Ra  ( member #36033)		posted at 11:08 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012	
				Former story began here July 2012
We were mad-hatters. I was a WW first then a BS. Separated May 2017. 2 kids. 
Met my new beginning May 2019 just discovered his EA Oct 2020 4 days after we bought a house 		
	 	 			
				    				snookie ( member #36569)		posted at 6:38 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012	
			 
	Thank you maia!!  
 
 
			 	 			
				    				sarahsorry812 ( new member #36825)		posted at 4:32 PM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012	
			 
	Maia - 
 
 
	I'm new to SI and have found it to be very helpful. 
 
 
	This is the first time I've seen this post - I can relate to many of the points you bring up. Thank you for the words of encouragement and the great advice. 
 
 
	SS 
 
			 	 			
				    				 Maia (original poster  member #8268)		posted at 2:12 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012	
			 
	you are welcome.  
 
 
			 			The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18		
	 	 			
				    				HFSSC ( member #33338)		posted at 12:43 AM on Tuesday, October 16th, 2012	
				Me, 56 
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.		
	 	 			
				    				knightsbff ( member #36853)		posted at 7:50 PM on Monday, November 5th, 2012	
				fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs. 
I edit often to fix stuff  ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day.  that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try. 		
	 	 			
				    				BaxtersBFF ( member #26859)		posted at 2:04 PM on Sunday, January 20th, 2013	
			 
	time for a bump. 
 
 
			 		 			
				    				knightsbff ( member #36853)		posted at 5:09 AM on Wednesday, January 23rd, 2013	
				fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs. 
I edit often to fix stuff  ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day.  that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try. 		
	 	 			
				    				BaxtersBFF ( member #26859)		posted at 2:01 AM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013