sarahstar ( member #43889)		posted at 8:44 PM on Friday, January 16th, 2015	
		 			
				    				cantaccept ( member #37451)		posted at 12:20 AM on Sunday, January 18th, 2015	
				"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid"  Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie		
	 	 			
				    				5454real ( member #37455)		posted at 8:29 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2015	
				BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1  5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs 
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone." 
― Sophocle		
	 	 			
				    				MistersMommy ( member #46014)		posted at 9:35 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2015	
				Me:31
WH:30 8mnth PA 1.5yr EA
DDAY: 11/19/14 R
4yr old DS another on the way 11yr together
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comforts and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy		
	 	 			
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 8:29 AM on Thursday, January 22nd, 2015	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 			
				    				StillLivin ( member #40229)		posted at 2:48 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015	
				"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014		
	 	 			
				    				cantaccept ( member #37451)		posted at 1:19 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015	
				"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid"  Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie		
	 	 			
				    				brkn_heartd ( member #30396)		posted at 4:32 AM on Sunday, February 8th, 2015	
				Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10		
	 	 			
				    				devotedman ( member #45441)		posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015	
			 
	bump to keep with 20/20 hindsight post 
 
			 			Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 1:38 AM on Sunday, February 22nd, 2015	
			 
	Multi-bump for those who just found us and for a friend who JFO(again...).
[This message edited by Jpapageorge at 6:38 PM, February 22nd (Sunday)] 
 
			 			"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 12:32 AM on Sunday, March 8th, 2015	
			 
	Another multi-bump for those who just found us. 
 
			 			"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				Phoenix2rise ( member #45723)		posted at 1:36 AM on Sunday, March 8th, 2015	
			 
	Thank you, thank you so much! 
 
			 	 			
				    				oldtimer97 ( member #2365)		posted at 6:00 PM on Friday, March 20th, 2015	
				“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou
To save a marriage, you must be willing to lose the marriage. 		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 10:24 PM on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				Ginny ( member #43196)		posted at 9:35 PM on Thursday, April 2nd, 2015	
				BW49
FWH50
DDay 11-02-13
Married 30 years
2 month PA/EA with COW 
DS28
Trying to R		
	 	 			
				    				Edie ( member #26133)		posted at 10:02 AM on Tuesday, April 14th, 2015	
		 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 9:14 AM on Sunday, April 19th, 2015	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 8:12 PM on Monday, April 20th, 2015	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 8:22 AM on Monday, May 4th, 2015	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 8:26 PM on Wednesday, May 20th, 2015	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll