minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:16 AM on Tuesday, January 19th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 11:25 PM on Tuesday, January 26th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 8:55 PM on Wednesday, February 17th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				SI Staff ( Moderator #10)		posted at 9:26 PM on Monday, February 22nd, 2016	
		 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 5:58 PM on Wednesday, March 2nd, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 5:58 PM on Wednesday, March 2nd, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 6:57 PM on Monday, March 21st, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 2:35 PM on Sunday, April 3rd, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 6:00 PM on Sunday, April 10th, 2016	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119)		posted at 12:14 AM on Saturday, April 23rd, 2016	
				dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 6:59 PM on Tuesday, April 26th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 3:26 AM on Tuesday, May 3rd, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				mchercheur ( member #37735)		posted at 10:41 PM on Thursday, May 5th, 2016	
				Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be		
	 	 			
				    				Dontholien ( member #32632)		posted at 11:03 PM on Thursday, May 5th, 2016	
			 
	Thank you for the bump, i really needed to read this today. 
 
			 			Me 29 (B) Him 30 (EXW)
4 years of DDays,numerous AP, PA&EA
"Happy" R for 3 years, he proposed, we set a wedding date 01/14/17 -cancelled
Discovered A#????? with COW 5/18/16
Discovered more OW, drink, gambling, cocaine.
Now loving life :)		
	 	 			
				    				1Faith ( member #38975)		posted at 10:30 PM on Wednesday, May 11th, 2016	
				Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 11:36 AM on Thursday, May 26th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 11:01 PM on Friday, June 3rd, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				Lyonesse ( member #32943)		posted at 2:32 AM on Wednesday, June 8th, 2016	
			 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 2:53 PM on Wednesday, June 15th, 2016	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:23 PM on Wednesday, June 22nd, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou