RyeBread ( member #37437)		posted at 9:55 PM on Wednesday, November 21st, 2012	
				Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates		
	 	 			
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 2:48 AM on Thursday, November 22nd, 2012	
			 
	Updated as of today - remember I usually only update once at the beginning of the month. 
 
 
	
 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			
				    				SoyLatte ( member #37634)		posted at 10:24 AM on Thursday, November 29th, 2012	
				Me: BS, 54
Him: WH, 54, serial cheater and compulsive liar
Married 22 years, together 31
3 kids: 15, 18, and 20
Waiting it out till "retirement" (till kids are grown)		
	 	 			
				    				WPaul ( new member #35166)		posted at 2:20 AM on Tuesday, December 4th, 2012	
				me=47 yr old FWH
wife=43 yr old BS
DS 3		
	 	 			
				    				lostgirl79 ( new member #35860)		posted at 7:49 PM on Friday, December 7th, 2012	
			 
	My birthday is tomorrow! 
 
 
	December 8th. 
 
			 			DD~May 30, 2012
Currently working on R
Me~33
WH~32
My 3 beautiful children~~16, 12, and 9.		
	 	 			
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 2:46 AM on Sunday, December 9th, 2012	
			 
	Updated as of December 8, 2012. Happy birthday lostgirl79! 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			
				    				sportsfan ( member #9918)		posted at 3:39 PM on Friday, December 14th, 2012	
		 			
				    				little turtle ( member #15584)		posted at 11:23 PM on Sunday, December 23rd, 2012	
			 
	I thought I was on this list already, but I don't see me!! 
 
 
	February 26  
 
 
 
	Thanks, BR. 
 
			 			Failure is success if we learn from it.		
	 	 			
				    				SoVerySadNow ( member #36711)		posted at 11:27 PM on Sunday, December 23rd, 2012	
			 
	June 27  
 
 
			 			Me:BW
Him:WH 
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.		
	 	 			
				    				WarehouseGuy ( member #6037)		posted at 11:35 PM on Sunday, December 23rd, 2012	
			 
	February 18 
 
 
	WHG 
 
 
			 			 If you see your ex with someone else don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.		
	 	 			
				    				FeelsSoRight ( member #28377)		posted at 12:00 PM on Wednesday, December 26th, 2012	
				Me - W - 48
Him - H - 47
Together since we were 14/15
Married 27 yrs in August (renewed our vows in 2011-H's idea!)
DD-23, DS-15
Separated for 7 mos & were 3 wks from divorce when we reconciled 
Happily R for almost 4 years
		
	 	 			
				    				SandAway ( member #37775)		posted at 2:59 PM on Monday, December 31st, 2012	
			 
	May 3 
 
 
	
 
 
			 			fWW 
BH Tred
M 19yrs
DDay Nov. 2011
Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people		
	 	 			
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 1:31 PM on Tuesday, January 1st, 2013	
			 
	Adding new ones to the list: 
 
 
	sportsfan - Nov 26 
 
 
	little turtle - February 26 
 
 
	SoVerySadNow - June 27 
 
 
	WarehouseGuy - February 18 
 
 
	FeelsSoRight -  December 26th 
 
 
	SandAway - May 3 
 
 
	Let me know if I missed one! 
 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			
				    				cinnamongurl ( member #37879)		posted at 4:00 AM on Thursday, January 10th, 2013	
			 
	Feb 24 and I'll be 35! Yikes! When did that happen? 
 
 
			 			Me:FWS 42 He: FBS 43 and my heart
Together 22 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
CG
		
	 	 			
				    				GullibleGirl ( member #33580)		posted at 5:02 PM on Thursday, January 10th, 2013	
			 
	I am January 22nd. No outdoor birthday parties for me....waaahhhhh!  
 
 
			 			Me-FWW-53 He-BH-55 
No kids/M 29yrs/D-Day: 4/20/11
		
	 	 			
				    				Kayfay ( new member #38098)		posted at 1:27 AM on Sunday, January 13th, 2013	
			 
	I'm brand spanking new here...January 19th for me! 
 
			 			D-day 12/24/2012
Twin daughters together 18 mo 11 yr son from previous
He stayed w ow
Ex Fiancé 8 yrs		
	 	 			
				    				Chrysalis123 ( member #27148)		posted at 3:52 AM on Monday, January 14th, 2013	
				Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift.  - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie		
	 	 			
				    				BwayBaby ( new member #38136)		posted at 5:43 PM on Tuesday, January 15th, 2013	
			 
	December 6  
 
 
			 			BS
DD 10/29/12 Superstorm Sandy
Married 8 Years; trying to stay married.		
	 	 			
				    				Issaquah ( member #34484)		posted at 9:14 PM on Tuesday, January 15th, 2013	
				BS - Me, 45
ExWS - Husband, 47 SA dx in March 2013
T-25, M-21 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays / OWs since 1999
Most recent DDay 8-12
Divorced		
	 	 			
				    				wantreallove ( member #37534)		posted at 1:05 PM on Thursday, January 17th, 2013	
				Me,BS 42 WH (masame5) 44 Married 22 yrs, 8 kids D-day 10/9/12 (caught him through fb chat)
D-day #2 11/19/12 thru 11/21/12  (found out about all the rest of the A's.) 8 AP. D-day #3 Oct 18, 2023 it's happening again... 3 AP's plus so many attempts