WontBeFooledAgai ( member #72671) posted at 1:43 PM on Wednesday, November 5th, 2025
Eric, you have the agency to decide that what you are getting from your WW is not enough for you, and to D and move on with your life. It is NOT 'too late' for you.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:52 PM on Wednesday, November 5th, 2025
I know your IC had good reason to take a break, but I expect it feels like another abandonment to you. Don't underestimate the effect on you. My reco is to call to check in - if her daughter is still ill, your IC might appreciate hearing from you.
Another reco is to seek a new IC now. Delaying is another way of not saying what you want to say.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.