Kittycatkitty (original poster new member #86068) posted at 9:56 AM on Saturday, March 28th, 2026
Thanks for the replies all xx
Sisoon- Im not invited to this one its work colleagues only aparently. And I couldn't go even if I was.
The ow is a toxic homewrecker and ive made it clear to her my feelings on what she is and i called her a tramp,(she had the audacity to message me downplaying it all)
it would be an awful atmosphere and I wouldnt want this for mutual friends. So in a nutshell I get to miss out on stuff yet my husband and ap go on socials together. How is that right. I cant see us lasting in all reality now. Things have just become awful and hes done nothing ive asked. So im now potentially going to be losing him (and likely to her) because things arent working out between us through his lack of proper reconciling, not cutting her off, and now socials
Im stupid :(
[This message edited by Kittycatkitty at 8:44 AM, Sunday, March 29th]
Me 45F
WH 46
2 children
California
Kittycatkitty (original poster new member #86068) posted at 8:47 AM on Sunday, March 29th, 2026
Another update we arent speaking at the moment fully, and what's gone on since d day is rugsweeping and its now looking like a failed reconciliation. 馃槗
I tried, I really did 馃挃
Me 45F
WH 46
2 children
California
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 9:25 AM on Sunday, March 29th, 2026
I鈥檓 sorry you are going through this.
As we all know, your H is not putting you & marriage first and by choosing to go to this event, knowing how it affects you, he鈥檚 basically telling you to shut up about this affair.
Hard to reconcile when the cheater continues to be selfish.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
