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(hopefully, in a way that's mutually experienced as intellectually interesting--not maddening) at the margins.

Rest assured, it has been both! lol

It is not at all my position that infidelity is broadly a moral good.

Right, but if your goal is reconciliation, your position ought to be that infidelity is inherently morally bad and entirely avoidable if one so chooses ;)

Dear Morbs,

I’ll take… "both."

I know I’m not easy to tolerate in large doses, so… thanks for your forbearance—and please take note: I appreciate your concern over my immortal soul’s behavior!

Yes, I absolutely want R with my W!

I do see infidelity as generally wrong.

I just need my W to wake up and resume treating me as her H (not merely calling me her H). Well, that and to let me have back my OW in an ordered and bounded and transparent friendship. I’ll sincerely be patient—and exclusively faithful—for a good long time! Oh! And forever with respect to my OW! Hopefully forever overall, in fact; that’s "Plan A," anyhow! You might’ve noticed how stubborn I can be? It really does take a lot to derail me from a Plan.

I’m just being an honest dealer that there’s also a Plan X, a Plan Y, and a Plan Z! That stated, I’m not going to be "prowling" any time soon. Me and my 5’7" bald-top middle-aged "rizless" Dad bod! LOL!

[This message edited by Unconventional at 12:45 AM, Sunday, October 18th]